Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
9.30.2010
9.25.2010
lots of changes
So here's what happened.
He did!
As always....
It's amazing how I can walk around every day, not really thinking about him, but then I see him and BAM! he hits me like a train on an early Saturday Morning.
I don't know what I did, and I don't know what he did. I don't know why it has to be this way, but I do know that as it looks right now, it's not likely that it's gonna change any day soon.
This has been going on for over 2 years now. TWO YEARS! he's been stuck in my head, though I've did what every teen movie tells people in my situation to do.
I did hang out with other people, I did go out and meet new people, I did have some fun, I did think of something else, I was with someone else, I was with someone who didn't even have anything to do with him, little even know that he exists, I did go out and get drunk, and I did a lot of things to try and get over him.
But yet he sits there with his big smile, his beautiful tattoos and his long fluffy hair asking how I am, and telling me that he missed me, and all those things he keep doing that keeps on breaking my heart over and over and over again.
I need changes in my life. Lots of changes.
I need to live a new place, where I can go out and have fun and get drunk and spent time on useless things. I need to live a little and spent some time on making myself happy, and letting myself have some self esteem.
I need to learn how to love myself, and I need to learn how to not care. I need to have some friends, friends I can actually be with, instead of just all of this IM'ing/texting.
It sucks, and I'm freaking sick of being lonely.
What I need is to leave this life behind, and start all over with a new one.
The only thing is, I need to figure out if I want to carry pieces from this life with me, or if I should leave everything behind..
He did!
As always....
It's amazing how I can walk around every day, not really thinking about him, but then I see him and BAM! he hits me like a train on an early Saturday Morning.
I don't know what I did, and I don't know what he did. I don't know why it has to be this way, but I do know that as it looks right now, it's not likely that it's gonna change any day soon.
This has been going on for over 2 years now. TWO YEARS! he's been stuck in my head, though I've did what every teen movie tells people in my situation to do.
I did hang out with other people, I did go out and meet new people, I did have some fun, I did think of something else, I was with someone else, I was with someone who didn't even have anything to do with him, little even know that he exists, I did go out and get drunk, and I did a lot of things to try and get over him.
But yet he sits there with his big smile, his beautiful tattoos and his long fluffy hair asking how I am, and telling me that he missed me, and all those things he keep doing that keeps on breaking my heart over and over and over again.
I need changes in my life. Lots of changes.
I need to live a new place, where I can go out and have fun and get drunk and spent time on useless things. I need to live a little and spent some time on making myself happy, and letting myself have some self esteem.
I need to learn how to love myself, and I need to learn how to not care. I need to have some friends, friends I can actually be with, instead of just all of this IM'ing/texting.
It sucks, and I'm freaking sick of being lonely.
What I need is to leave this life behind, and start all over with a new one.
The only thing is, I need to figure out if I want to carry pieces from this life with me, or if I should leave everything behind..
8.22.2010
Gay Pride, birthdays, and BH90210
Now with pictures :D
Friday
going to Amalie's place
The plan was that I should arrive at her place Friday night, so I did.
I went on the train at 08.15pm from Odense, and arrived at Herlev station at 10.03pm, where I ran into two guys I've known for a few years. I very rarely see them, so I got really happy to see their beautiful faces. We talked for a bit, and they brought the good news that they had just become uncles - their brother had just got a beautiful little baby girl called Olivia. Love for babies.<3
Then I went to find Amalie, and we were headed home. Amalie, her brothers, her sister and I got straight to the living room to watch Harry Potter and The Sorcerers Stone. Halfway through the movie Amalie and I went to bed.
Saturday afternoon
early wakings and Rainbow Gay Pride
We got woken up by Amalie's older brothers singing the Danish birthday song for her - at 7.51am - pretty early for a Saturday morning. But we ended up forgiving them, because when we got up we were met by a breakfast of Coco Pops, Cheerios, crêpes and bread rolls. All the sudden her morning grumpiness disappeared :DAfter breakfast we got over and started watching Harry Potter and The Chamber of Secrets. But just as Hermione Granger were petrified by the basilisk we had to get ready to go to Copenhagen.
A little stressed out we made it, and got on the train. At 1.00pm we were at city square. The square was filled with a stage at the one half, and the rest was filled with little market shops.
A true mix of people were all over the city that day. It was so beautiful. And all the amazing colors spreading from one end to another. I wish Copenhagen were like that every day.
We met a lot of people we know, and the big parade was so beautiful. I almost teared up for watching all of that love. I couldn't help feeling it deep inside my soul.
Photographer: Christina Ihler Madsen
Photographer: Christina Ihler Madsen
NB: Pictures of the parade at the end of the blog
Saturday night
birthdays, Beverly Hills 90210, and nakedness
Guest list: Mary, Nanna, Theo, Terfa, Cille, Signe, Amanda,SC and Line
After all the partiness in the big bad city, we all went back to Amalie's house where we were going to throw her a big birthday party. Of course we were. We started with getting all the people into the house and then Mary, Mia (Amalie's sister) and I went downtown to get some food and booze.
We hurried to make some dinner, and eat, as we watched all of Fall Out Boy's videos... a zillion times (♥)
Then we went straight on board with the drinking. We got a nice game of drinking cards on - around 10 people in one game, that was a pretty nice deal.
Signe had been a bit foggy already from the parade earlier on, so it didn't take long for her to catch up with that bender again. Terfa did pretty good on that account too. She was definitely the comic feature of the party. But fortunately she didn't get herself hurt, and she didn't get into any other kinds of trouble.
When the clock hit midnight SC and Amalie had made a Pact. Sunday was SC's birthday, so they decided (yeah okay, it was my idea) that SC should run around the garden all naked, and Amalie should run in just underwear. So they did. Thank God for Mary's video camera! One word: F A C B O O K !
Unfortunately that was the time where people started to head home. So we ended up being 5 people sleeping there, besides Amalie and her sister.
And so bad, but we just realized now that we never got our Beverly Hills 90210 pictures taken, which sucks so bad, that I have to convince everybody that we have to throw a party SOON! themed BH90210.
Sunday
homecoming, and mr. Handsome
Theo and I decided to crash the couch, so there was room for the girls in Amalie's bedroom. And we got woken up by Signe saying goodbye. Too early if you ask me, I would have love to have a bit more time with her. Then we slept on, and ended up being waken up by Amalie talking about milk and remo. So gross.
We got up, and I started getting ready to head home. After I had swallowed my coffee and my breakfast in almost one quick motion I was so late for the train that I almost had to run all the way - and yay, as I arrived at the bus stop the bus was delayed, so I had to sit and wait. Just my luck, dude.
But I got in the train just as it started to rain. When I hit Valby where I was supposed to wait for 20 minutes it was pouring down. So after reading two chapters in my book, (The Prestige by Christopher Priest) I ran out dancing around in the rain, with a lot of people on the platform standing under the roof giving me odd looks.
I got on the train home, and when I hit Odense I only had to wait for 40 minutes, which isn't so bad, as opposed to how long I usually have to wait.
I was home around 02.40pm - real early for what time I normally get home after a few days on the other side of the ocean.
I went to my bedroom checking up on my email, and my on line friends. After that I watched a few episodes of Chuck (Chuck vs. Truth and Chuck vs. Tooth). Then I suddenly realized that it become late, so I went to the living room to watch last weeks episode of White Collar, Vital Signs, so I was sure to be on with it for tonights episode, Home Invasion. We had dinner, and then my sister started watching Ice Age 3, so I didn't get to watch White Collar tonight. Then I just have to watch it on my computer. No one can stand between Mr. Matt Bomer and me!
Time for bed
bedtime stories, and long day ahead
And here I sit, getting prepared for my first real day of school for the first time in a year, as I am listening to Fall Out Boy. I am really excited for tomorrow, but man am I nervous - true that, dude...
Tomorrow's lessons: 08.30am Chemistry for three lessons, and then three lessons of Danish at 11.40am, and then I get off at 02.20pm - long day for me, I think so. And the best part is that I have to go to the gym directly after school, yes ma'am!
Now I will pack up the last stuff, and then I will watch White Collar, and then I will get myself some nice dreams about something... let's just say nice ;)
Nighty night out there, all of you bloggers, stalkers, and freakshows ♥
Pictures as promised - better late than never, right :)
8.05.2010
It's up to you New York, New York ...
I made a decision!
As soon as I have graduated I am gonna go to the US for a year, or maybe more, to work as an au-pair.
I've been having this dream since I was a little girl, and I've checked out all there is know about it - TWICE!
The only thing I need to get clear now is a few tiny details; I need to graduate, I need to have a drivers license... and I need to figure out whether I want to go to New York or Los Angeles.
Which is my biggest problem - the other two things can be sorted out in two years. And I am already working on that.
So I did what everybody is doing these days; I asked Facebook for advice.
I made a Facebook status update simply just saying "New York or LA, people?" and I guess that most people were ruling for LA as far as I can tell.
But the problem is that there are so many great things about both cities that makes me think that this is the place I wanna go.
So I ended up with the decision that I need to make a pros vs. cons list for both cities. Which I will start doing soon. As soon as I know where to start.
And then some way, in the middle of all of this, I ended up making a deal with a friend called Laura, that we should go to New York together. Soon. Fall break actually. Week 42 this year.
If everything goes right of course. We both need to get the money, which shouldn't be that hard, because I found a really cheap deal, that seems very sweet - a bargain actually. But how in the world do I do that when I'm studying?! *wishing for a job to come along*
And the next problem is : her parents! Will they ever let her go?
She's 16 years old, and she's in high school. She's a good kid though ...
No absence from school, goes to work loyally, helps her parents around the house ... she's a really good kid. A sweet girl. I wish I was hanging more out with her. But hey, this is the time.
And her parents did let her go to the Faroe Islands on her own last year - when she was only 15, so ... and this time she'll be with me - the 21 year old, responsible student, who lives at with her dad to help him because of his illnesses.
I just hope everything works out. I really, really wanna go to New York - and with Laura it would be even greater, cause this would be an experience of a life time for both of us.
Wish me luck, people
As soon as I have graduated I am gonna go to the US for a year, or maybe more, to work as an au-pair.
I've been having this dream since I was a little girl, and I've checked out all there is know about it - TWICE!
The only thing I need to get clear now is a few tiny details; I need to graduate, I need to have a drivers license... and I need to figure out whether I want to go to New York or Los Angeles.
Which is my biggest problem - the other two things can be sorted out in two years. And I am already working on that.
So I did what everybody is doing these days; I asked Facebook for advice.
I made a Facebook status update simply just saying "New York or LA, people?" and I guess that most people were ruling for LA as far as I can tell.
But the problem is that there are so many great things about both cities that makes me think that this is the place I wanna go.
So I ended up with the decision that I need to make a pros vs. cons list for both cities. Which I will start doing soon. As soon as I know where to start.
And then some way, in the middle of all of this, I ended up making a deal with a friend called Laura, that we should go to New York together. Soon. Fall break actually. Week 42 this year.
If everything goes right of course. We both need to get the money, which shouldn't be that hard, because I found a really cheap deal, that seems very sweet - a bargain actually. But how in the world do I do that when I'm studying?! *wishing for a job to come along*
And the next problem is : her parents! Will they ever let her go?
She's 16 years old, and she's in high school. She's a good kid though ...
No absence from school, goes to work loyally, helps her parents around the house ... she's a really good kid. A sweet girl. I wish I was hanging more out with her. But hey, this is the time.
And her parents did let her go to the Faroe Islands on her own last year - when she was only 15, so ... and this time she'll be with me - the 21 year old, responsible student, who lives at with her dad to help him because of his illnesses.
I just hope everything works out. I really, really wanna go to New York - and with Laura it would be even greater, cause this would be an experience of a life time for both of us.
Wish me luck, people
7.31.2010
A Walk To Africa
There's this friend of mine that I haven't talk to for ages. The last time I heard from him was March, I think. No one had heard from him. It was like he had disappeared from the surface of the Earth.
And then this night I was surfing around Facebook as I do so very often, and I suddenly saw that he was on line. So right away I texted him on the IM-thingy tool. I was really afraid that he weren't gonna reply me, so I held my breath. But he did! He replied almost instantly ...
Of course I asked him what had happened. And said how worried I had been, that I was starting to fear that he was dead or something. And he told me that he had been very close a lot of times.
He told me that he had started walking, without really knowing where he was heading for. Suddenly he found himself at the border between Denmark and Germany, where he met a truck driver who offered him a ride. So he accepted, and drove with the nice man to Greece. In Greece he met some fishermen who were going to Africa, so then he jumped on a boat, and ended up in Egypt where he spent a bit time before heading back home.
This is just the coolest thing that I have ever heard about, it is so amazingly awesome that I have no words for it.
I just sit here, and envy him so much! I wish that I had the courage, and the will-power to get out on a trip like that.
I just hope that I can talk him into taking me on his next adventure. It's just so cool.
I really admire that boy.
Below I have found a map where I have drawn his route. It's a little shaky as I am such a sucker at using those kind of computer tools.
Black line is from Odense, Denmark to the border to Germany.
The red line is the trip from Germany to Greece, and the blue is the oversea trip from Greece to Egypt.
Look at what this guy have achieved!
If you truly look inside of your heart, would you ever have dared yourself to go out on a journey quite as spectacular as this?
And then this night I was surfing around Facebook as I do so very often, and I suddenly saw that he was on line. So right away I texted him on the IM-thingy tool. I was really afraid that he weren't gonna reply me, so I held my breath. But he did! He replied almost instantly ...
Of course I asked him what had happened. And said how worried I had been, that I was starting to fear that he was dead or something. And he told me that he had been very close a lot of times.
He told me that he had started walking, without really knowing where he was heading for. Suddenly he found himself at the border between Denmark and Germany, where he met a truck driver who offered him a ride. So he accepted, and drove with the nice man to Greece. In Greece he met some fishermen who were going to Africa, so then he jumped on a boat, and ended up in Egypt where he spent a bit time before heading back home.
This is just the coolest thing that I have ever heard about, it is so amazingly awesome that I have no words for it.
I just sit here, and envy him so much! I wish that I had the courage, and the will-power to get out on a trip like that.
I just hope that I can talk him into taking me on his next adventure. It's just so cool.
I really admire that boy.
Below I have found a map where I have drawn his route. It's a little shaky as I am such a sucker at using those kind of computer tools.
Black line is from Odense, Denmark to the border to Germany.
The red line is the trip from Germany to Greece, and the blue is the oversea trip from Greece to Egypt.
Look at what this guy have achieved!
If you truly look inside of your heart, would you ever have dared yourself to go out on a journey quite as spectacular as this?
7.28.2010
Long time, no see
I know, it's been a while since I showed my face here last.
I've been away on vacation, visiting some friends, doing weird, crazy and lazy stuff. Which has been nice, I've really needed that.
There isn't really much to tell.
I went to Copenhagen on July 9th to go to Nanna's birthday party. Dang she is lucky. She got a lot of nice stuff, but the best thing she got was a life-size card-board Michael Jackson stand-up. It's amazing. I just love it!
I mean look at him, he is just gorgeous! and it looks so realistic, even more when it's popped out of the background, so he stands by himself - I envy her so much..
Then I went to Christian and Inge's place, where I spent a great amount of time with hanging out with Joy, Christian and Inge, and Saturday Theo too.. it was really nice, I enjoyed it a lot. It had been way too long since I had seen Christian, and I had missed him so much, really, really much. But yeah, I had really missed all of them. It sucks living a zillion miles away from everybody I love.
Then Sunday I jumped on a bus from little Nærum to go to Albertslund where beautiful Laura was throwing a little get-together for a few girls. It was Laura, Stine, Sofie, Nina and I.
I loved it. It was so nice just hanging out, watching some MJ dvds, and just talking. About everything and nothing. It was just sad that Laura was going to Encino, CA at Thursday so from that day on I wouldn't see her for more than a month - unfortunately.
After girls night at Laura's I went back to Hvidovre with Stine. We just hung out, watch some TV show, and talked, and spent a few nights drinking. One night there was this amazing thunderstorm right above our heads so we ran out in the street in bare feet dancing around, acting crazy.
And then there was some drinking nights with a few crazyheads from her block, and mystery adventures with... let's just say it was a boy.
After Stine's I went to Theo's birthday party at Saturday 17th. There was a lot of people I hadn't seen for ages, and it was so good to be back hanging out with them all. Even though it pissed me off that they kept on talking about the Stevie Wonder concert that I hadn't been able to go to.
After the party I came to Fowsia's place. And it was great, cause I rarely see her, and when I do it's not for more than a couple of hours a time, and I miss spending time with her. We spent the days going for walks, and laying on the grass watching clouds, talking about memories, and random stuff.
Then I was headed for Cille's place, whom I hadn't spent time with since... since I don't know when.
We took a walk with her lovely dog, Luna, and then we watched a few movies. Old school: Scream 3
, Scary Movie
on VHS and Scary Movie 2
on VHS. We played a bit PS2, and other than that we just talked. I don't know when it was the last time that I had the chance to talk to Cille - just talk, so I really enjoyed that time, even though it weren't long we had together.
Then it became Tuesday and I was going for Nanna's place. We had a deal with Søren to meet with him, and then we would all take Nanna's 6year old brother to a playground near their house. It was awesome. There was this obstacle course that was called the Jungle Path. It was made for kids to learn the alphabet in a fun way, and I must say that I really enjoyed it a lot. There was no swings, but the carousel and the cableway really made up for it. I could stay there for hours - so we did.
At Wednesday Nanna and I went to Copenhagen to meet with Theo, and follow him to Jonas' place where we were staying till Saturday. We went to the beach, barbecued, made a bonfire where we roasted marshmallows and bread on a stick - don't really remember the English word for it - and we slept in a tent. We played dart and watched movies, and all in all it was actually pretty nice. The weather was good, and it was nice just sitting at the fire at night cuddling under a blanket watching the flames, talking about random stuff, drinking and just being together.
But something happened that hurt me deeply, and I had to went home Friday instead of Saturday - I just couldn't take it anymore. It tore out my soul, and now I am restless and don't know what to do.
I miss you. I wish I knew what to do.
Well, this was my 2 weeks on Sjælland. I hope everybody is having a nice vacation, and please take care of yourself out there. More accidents happen in the summer than people are aware of.
Love you all ♥
I've been away on vacation, visiting some friends, doing weird, crazy and lazy stuff. Which has been nice, I've really needed that.
There isn't really much to tell.
I went to Copenhagen on July 9th to go to Nanna's birthday party. Dang she is lucky. She got a lot of nice stuff, but the best thing she got was a life-size card-board Michael Jackson stand-up. It's amazing. I just love it!
I mean look at him, he is just gorgeous! and it looks so realistic, even more when it's popped out of the background, so he stands by himself - I envy her so much..
Then I went to Christian and Inge's place, where I spent a great amount of time with hanging out with Joy, Christian and Inge, and Saturday Theo too.. it was really nice, I enjoyed it a lot. It had been way too long since I had seen Christian, and I had missed him so much, really, really much. But yeah, I had really missed all of them. It sucks living a zillion miles away from everybody I love.
Then Sunday I jumped on a bus from little Nærum to go to Albertslund where beautiful Laura was throwing a little get-together for a few girls. It was Laura, Stine, Sofie, Nina and I.
I loved it. It was so nice just hanging out, watching some MJ dvds, and just talking. About everything and nothing. It was just sad that Laura was going to Encino, CA at Thursday so from that day on I wouldn't see her for more than a month - unfortunately.
After girls night at Laura's I went back to Hvidovre with Stine. We just hung out, watch some TV show, and talked, and spent a few nights drinking. One night there was this amazing thunderstorm right above our heads so we ran out in the street in bare feet dancing around, acting crazy.
And then there was some drinking nights with a few crazyheads from her block, and mystery adventures with... let's just say it was a boy.
After Stine's I went to Theo's birthday party at Saturday 17th. There was a lot of people I hadn't seen for ages, and it was so good to be back hanging out with them all. Even though it pissed me off that they kept on talking about the Stevie Wonder concert that I hadn't been able to go to.
After the party I came to Fowsia's place. And it was great, cause I rarely see her, and when I do it's not for more than a couple of hours a time, and I miss spending time with her. We spent the days going for walks, and laying on the grass watching clouds, talking about memories, and random stuff.
Then I was headed for Cille's place, whom I hadn't spent time with since... since I don't know when.
We took a walk with her lovely dog, Luna, and then we watched a few movies. Old school: Scream 3
, Scary Movie on VHS and Scary Movie 2 on VHS. We played a bit PS2, and other than that we just talked. I don't know when it was the last time that I had the chance to talk to Cille - just talk, so I really enjoyed that time, even though it weren't long we had together.Then it became Tuesday and I was going for Nanna's place. We had a deal with Søren to meet with him, and then we would all take Nanna's 6year old brother to a playground near their house. It was awesome. There was this obstacle course that was called the Jungle Path. It was made for kids to learn the alphabet in a fun way, and I must say that I really enjoyed it a lot. There was no swings, but the carousel and the cableway really made up for it. I could stay there for hours - so we did.
At Wednesday Nanna and I went to Copenhagen to meet with Theo, and follow him to Jonas' place where we were staying till Saturday. We went to the beach, barbecued, made a bonfire where we roasted marshmallows and bread on a stick - don't really remember the English word for it - and we slept in a tent. We played dart and watched movies, and all in all it was actually pretty nice. The weather was good, and it was nice just sitting at the fire at night cuddling under a blanket watching the flames, talking about random stuff, drinking and just being together.
But something happened that hurt me deeply, and I had to went home Friday instead of Saturday - I just couldn't take it anymore. It tore out my soul, and now I am restless and don't know what to do.
I miss you. I wish I knew what to do.
Well, this was my 2 weeks on Sjælland. I hope everybody is having a nice vacation, and please take care of yourself out there. More accidents happen in the summer than people are aware of.
Love you all ♥
6.24.2010
I came here to make you dance tonight
So... I am sitting at Stine's floor with Cobra Starship's Guilty Pleasure (Album Version)
in my brain, and I haven't been able to get it out since I heard it last afternoon. Not that it bothers me, but it's only two freaking lines.
Stine is fast asleep and I have been awake for around an hour and a half now, and I can't sleep anymore, so I thought that I'd just update this.
I don't know how I feel today. Kinda numb I guess. I got things straightened out with my friend yesterday. Which is good, cause I don't ever wanna lose him. I really love him, though he can be a jerk. But hey, who can't, am I right..
But I'm still feeling like I am gonna explode about that chick that annoys the crap outta me, and I can't really deal with the thought of seeing her tomorrow.
And then there's the case about tomorrow... June 25th. The Black Day. The Date that's been eating my heart out for a year now.
I can't wrap my brain around it. It's just too much. It's killing me, and all the sudden it is just so real. It's like a nightmare where I'm running from a hideous clown but aren't getting anywhere and th freak is just coming closer and closer and no matter how much I tear my lungs out to scream, no sound is coming out.
It's just.. unbearable..
Yesterday I woke up from this amazing, just wonderful, dream that just seemed so real. It weren't anything big. We were just being together, spending time together. Talking, laughing, embracing each other - just Michael and me. It was so fantastic. And it was so real that when I woke up I could still feel the touch of his skin, smell the sweet scent of his hair, hear his humming in my ear. It killed me. I cried for half an hour when I realized what reality was.
And now I can't seem to stop thinking about it - about him. About the fact that I will never get the chance to hug him, to feel him, to look into those big brown eyes with the amazing lashes.
Michael Jackson, I miss you. Please come back to me?
in my brain, and I haven't been able to get it out since I heard it last afternoon. Not that it bothers me, but it's only two freaking lines.Stine is fast asleep and I have been awake for around an hour and a half now, and I can't sleep anymore, so I thought that I'd just update this.
I don't know how I feel today. Kinda numb I guess. I got things straightened out with my friend yesterday. Which is good, cause I don't ever wanna lose him. I really love him, though he can be a jerk. But hey, who can't, am I right..
But I'm still feeling like I am gonna explode about that chick that annoys the crap outta me, and I can't really deal with the thought of seeing her tomorrow.
And then there's the case about tomorrow... June 25th. The Black Day. The Date that's been eating my heart out for a year now.
I can't wrap my brain around it. It's just too much. It's killing me, and all the sudden it is just so real. It's like a nightmare where I'm running from a hideous clown but aren't getting anywhere and th freak is just coming closer and closer and no matter how much I tear my lungs out to scream, no sound is coming out.
It's just.. unbearable..
Yesterday I woke up from this amazing, just wonderful, dream that just seemed so real. It weren't anything big. We were just being together, spending time together. Talking, laughing, embracing each other - just Michael and me. It was so fantastic. And it was so real that when I woke up I could still feel the touch of his skin, smell the sweet scent of his hair, hear his humming in my ear. It killed me. I cried for half an hour when I realized what reality was.
And now I can't seem to stop thinking about it - about him. About the fact that I will never get the chance to hug him, to feel him, to look into those big brown eyes with the amazing lashes.
Michael Jackson, I miss you. Please come back to me?
6.22.2010
call me a whiner - I don't freaking care
Listening to: Fall Out Boy 'Send Postcards From A Plane Crash (wish you were here)'
So, the last few days have been frustrating in so many ways.
I haven't talked to someone I considered one of my best friends in over a week, which is weird cause usually we talk every day all the time, but he wont return my phone calls or respond to my texts, and he haven't been online on Messenger that often, and when he has been he haven't contacted me at all. This made me worried about him, so Sunday night I sent him a text telling him that I was worried, not a sound in response. A few hours later he talked to me on Messenger as if nothing had happened, and I decided to let it be, and just take "the talk" about the past week later on cause I was kinda in the middle of something when he wrote me. But then all the sudden, out of the blue, he got all cold, and after a few cold responses he stopped replying.
I haven't contacted him since, cause I feel that this is his responsibility - it's him who have been ignoring me, and I can't keep up texting him or calling him to figure out what's going on with him.
Then there was a change of plans about this weekend, and the party there was meant to be a our friends' house is off, which gave me a few probs about places to stay, but Nikki and I got a deal with my friend Stine to crash at her place Friday. Then I was left with Saturday as a problem, so my Jonas asked if him and me could stay at this friend I thought was of my best friends' place. Jonas could, but there was no way that there was room for me there. That made me a little suspicious.
But now I just found out that a few of our other friends are staying there too. So now I'm seriously pissed at him. If I did something wrong he could at least have the decency to tell me!
And then there's this girl that I have been friends with for a bit more than half a year. Since November I guess. She's always had tiny things that have annoyed me, but I have put up with it, cause hey, we can't all like everything about each other.
But now it has just become too much. The more I think about it, the more I dislike her, and get annoyed by her. And I feel really bad about it, cause I don't think that she even realizes the things she does.
I just think that she is so self-centered and shallow and attention-desperate, and I just can't stand those kinda things.
She turns things that should be private and intimate and are actually really bad into some kind of circus to get attention, and it makes nauseated. I think it's sick and wrong those things that she does, and my honest opinion is that this girl needs some kind of help.
It is true though that she has been through a lot in her life, and that it must have been really tough for her and her family - but so have I, and I don't go around whining about it all the time just to get attention.
I hate her pity-crusade. It's wrong, it's sick and she needs help.
Normally when people gets on my last nerve I tell them, but how the Hell should I ever be able to tell her this?!
Everyone thinks that she is "soooo brave" and that she is "such a good person", so if I ever point this out to her she can tie them around her little finger in a second and I will end up losing a lot of people I really care about. I am starting to believe that that is what have happened with my (ex) best friend, cause he sees her as some kind of goddess that are unable to make mistakes, another thing that makes me wanna puke.
Many people might raise an eyebrow about this statement and think "hey, she's so obviously jealous", and trust me, I have gone that side of the story over and over again in my head. But no, it has nothing, whatsoever, to do with jealousy, cause she has nothing that I am interested in.
I am not interested in the kind of attention that she constantly seeks, I am not interested in being looked at as the "never-failing goodie goodie". No way, cause that is not me.
I just think that people are giving her attention on a false basis, and my respect for her sinks deeper and deeper every time I hear from her.
And I will end this now before my head explodes.
Thank you for putting up with my irrational, and extreme, garbage. All I know is that it really loosened up to get this out of my system cause I have been carrying it around for a long time now.
Let's just hope it doesn't escalate this Friday where I am forced to fake a smile for her.
So, the last few days have been frustrating in so many ways.
I haven't talked to someone I considered one of my best friends in over a week, which is weird cause usually we talk every day all the time, but he wont return my phone calls or respond to my texts, and he haven't been online on Messenger that often, and when he has been he haven't contacted me at all. This made me worried about him, so Sunday night I sent him a text telling him that I was worried, not a sound in response. A few hours later he talked to me on Messenger as if nothing had happened, and I decided to let it be, and just take "the talk" about the past week later on cause I was kinda in the middle of something when he wrote me. But then all the sudden, out of the blue, he got all cold, and after a few cold responses he stopped replying.
I haven't contacted him since, cause I feel that this is his responsibility - it's him who have been ignoring me, and I can't keep up texting him or calling him to figure out what's going on with him.
Then there was a change of plans about this weekend, and the party there was meant to be a our friends' house is off, which gave me a few probs about places to stay, but Nikki and I got a deal with my friend Stine to crash at her place Friday. Then I was left with Saturday as a problem, so my Jonas asked if him and me could stay at this friend I thought was of my best friends' place. Jonas could, but there was no way that there was room for me there. That made me a little suspicious.
But now I just found out that a few of our other friends are staying there too. So now I'm seriously pissed at him. If I did something wrong he could at least have the decency to tell me!
And then there's this girl that I have been friends with for a bit more than half a year. Since November I guess. She's always had tiny things that have annoyed me, but I have put up with it, cause hey, we can't all like everything about each other.
But now it has just become too much. The more I think about it, the more I dislike her, and get annoyed by her. And I feel really bad about it, cause I don't think that she even realizes the things she does.
I just think that she is so self-centered and shallow and attention-desperate, and I just can't stand those kinda things.
She turns things that should be private and intimate and are actually really bad into some kind of circus to get attention, and it makes nauseated. I think it's sick and wrong those things that she does, and my honest opinion is that this girl needs some kind of help.
It is true though that she has been through a lot in her life, and that it must have been really tough for her and her family - but so have I, and I don't go around whining about it all the time just to get attention.
I hate her pity-crusade. It's wrong, it's sick and she needs help.
Normally when people gets on my last nerve I tell them, but how the Hell should I ever be able to tell her this?!
Everyone thinks that she is "soooo brave" and that she is "such a good person", so if I ever point this out to her she can tie them around her little finger in a second and I will end up losing a lot of people I really care about. I am starting to believe that that is what have happened with my (ex) best friend, cause he sees her as some kind of goddess that are unable to make mistakes, another thing that makes me wanna puke.
Many people might raise an eyebrow about this statement and think "hey, she's so obviously jealous", and trust me, I have gone that side of the story over and over again in my head. But no, it has nothing, whatsoever, to do with jealousy, cause she has nothing that I am interested in.
I am not interested in the kind of attention that she constantly seeks, I am not interested in being looked at as the "never-failing goodie goodie". No way, cause that is not me.
I just think that people are giving her attention on a false basis, and my respect for her sinks deeper and deeper every time I hear from her.
And I will end this now before my head explodes.
Thank you for putting up with my irrational, and extreme, garbage. All I know is that it really loosened up to get this out of my system cause I have been carrying it around for a long time now.
Let's just hope it doesn't escalate this Friday where I am forced to fake a smile for her.
6.20.2010
Disco fever and Pirates Of The Caribbean
Sooo... I just got home from house sitting my sisters apartment with my friend Elisa, and jesus, it was hilarious.
Friday we ran around the mall; me with a fake mustache, her with a children's viking helmet. People stared alot, and we got a few laughs from folks all around.
Then we went to the apartment where we ordered pizza, and played a looo-oooot of playstation - Pirates of the Caribbean. Dang are we some kick ass pirates!
Then we watched Cry Baby (Director's Cut)
with the hottie Johnny Depp *drool* and after that we watched Eurotrip (Unrated Widescreen Edition)
which is such a nice laugh!
Saturday we goofed with a little more playstation, and I must say that I am a pretty good Daredevil, and Elisa makes a nice Spiderman :D
Then we watched some Friends: Complete Fifth Season (4pc) (Std Sub)
, how can anyone NOT love this?
Later we made some crepes, and watched Road Trip (Unrated Edition)
. I can't believe Elisa hadn't seen those movies before. They're just epic!
Then we tuned in to the crabby music channels Denmark can come up with, turned up the volume, popped the Asti and Mokai and went crazy making wild 80's-like hair and make-up, and dressed up, goofing around, dancing around the apartment acting crazy. Singing along on the bad songs from the TV, and talking wildly about everybody we know (oh yeah, we did *OLE*).
Sunday we just chilled out, watching funny vids on youtube, and then we cleaned after ourselves as we listened to Tré Cool songs, and other weird stuff.
When I got home I got over ecstatic, cause I found that my Off the Wall [Vinyl]
had arrived, and my Kurt Cobain: Journals
too, so now I am just gonna read my ass of while listening to old records. Sweet Sunday, man..
When I got home the weather was nice, all sunny and warm, but after I had been home for around 30 minutes it started raining - no, not raining POURING! so I decided to put on my favorite Mr. Bean boxers and my Michael Jackson Ghosts t-shirt and dance around in the spontaneous summer rain, which was just amazing.
When I got inside the house again I was all soaked, and my t-shirt was clinging to my body like I had been pushed in the pool or something.
So... this was my weekend. Now I just have to deal with my bad feelings about me not having been working out since Thursday :/
Friday we ran around the mall; me with a fake mustache, her with a children's viking helmet. People stared alot, and we got a few laughs from folks all around.
Then we went to the apartment where we ordered pizza, and played a looo-oooot of playstation - Pirates of the Caribbean. Dang are we some kick ass pirates!
Then we watched Cry Baby (Director's Cut)
with the hottie Johnny Depp *drool* and after that we watched Eurotrip (Unrated Widescreen Edition) which is such a nice laugh!Saturday we goofed with a little more playstation, and I must say that I am a pretty good Daredevil, and Elisa makes a nice Spiderman :D
Then we watched some Friends: Complete Fifth Season (4pc) (Std Sub)
, how can anyone NOT love this?Later we made some crepes, and watched Road Trip (Unrated Edition)
. I can't believe Elisa hadn't seen those movies before. They're just epic!Then we tuned in to the crabby music channels Denmark can come up with, turned up the volume, popped the Asti and Mokai and went crazy making wild 80's-like hair and make-up, and dressed up, goofing around, dancing around the apartment acting crazy. Singing along on the bad songs from the TV, and talking wildly about everybody we know (oh yeah, we did *OLE*).
Sunday we just chilled out, watching funny vids on youtube, and then we cleaned after ourselves as we listened to Tré Cool songs, and other weird stuff.
When I got home I got over ecstatic, cause I found that my Off the Wall [Vinyl]
had arrived, and my Kurt Cobain: Journals too, so now I am just gonna read my ass of while listening to old records. Sweet Sunday, man..When I got home the weather was nice, all sunny and warm, but after I had been home for around 30 minutes it started raining - no, not raining POURING! so I decided to put on my favorite Mr. Bean boxers and my Michael Jackson Ghosts t-shirt and dance around in the spontaneous summer rain, which was just amazing.
When I got inside the house again I was all soaked, and my t-shirt was clinging to my body like I had been pushed in the pool or something.
So... this was my weekend. Now I just have to deal with my bad feelings about me not having been working out since Thursday :/
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